Sometimes if you want people to listen and do what you want (like put 3 pillows in cases) if they think you are a crazy person they will do it to keep you from going off the beam....
It was probably just a case of them not *thinking* (which is the cause of 95% of problems like this I reckon). I mean if hubby didn't specifically say "and I want that big chair" they probably wouldn't have even joined the dots (and why do they only have one "big" chair? Given the state of most americans - being bigger I mean - you'd think they'd have more than one???).. but anyway like I said I bet when they said he could change they simply didn't consider that.Perhaps as an interim solution you need to think ways around this - eg: can you supply heaps of pillows and stuff to pad up one of the normal chairs to make it semi-comfortable for him? Or perhaps lower the armrests of a normal chair to provide extra width for him? I'd also write / contact the management to request they supply more bigger chairs so this sort of situation won't occur so often. Don't know what good that would do but you can at least try.We have a patient at our unit, an older gentleman, and he prefers a specific sort of chair they have. If he's not allocated to it he has such a hissy fit it's amazing.. you'd think he was 7 not 70. I understand these chairs are not comfortable - heck I've spent 5 hours, 3 times a week in them for 3 years so far.. but it's amazing.. so they tell him "OK if you want chair X you need to wait till it becomes available" so THEn he cracks a fit because he came early and he should get on ASAP. You can't win with some people!! LOL. Me I just accept wherever they stick me... doesn't matter much to me because I'll always be uncomfortable no matter what (but I'm a skinny guy so I admit I can't understand fully the specific issues a "big" guy would have).
And they don't serve cocktails till nearly 2 PM.