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Title: sad today
Post by: Ohio Buckeye on April 14, 2008, 02:55:47 PM

My son's marriage is prettu much over.
They've been married 5 yrs in June.
She is intrested in someone else.
They have a 3 yr. old son who loves them both dearly.
My son pretty much has him all the time now.
My heart is breaking for littlle Tyler and and my son.
I'm crying as I'm typing this.
Then to top it off my son called today and said he got laid off
from his job of 9 yrs.
Things can't get much worse for him.
Here I am not working, one-legged and not able to help a whole lot.
Seems like it is always something.
Please remember them in your prayers.

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: Bajanne on April 14, 2008, 03:16:34 PM

I am here crying with you. This is not easy, by any means.  My caring thoughts and prayers are with you and with him and Tyler.  I am convinced of the strength of the human spirit.  He will get through this.  Your IHD family is with you all the way.  :grouphug;  Someday, this will just be an unpleasant memory.

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: Sluff on April 14, 2008, 03:17:39 PM

It's always tough when children are involved.  :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: twirl on April 14, 2008, 03:40:54 PM

you love your son and grandson and they know it

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: monrein on April 14, 2008, 03:57:52 PM

 :grouphug; Thinking of you and your family.

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: mysty on April 14, 2008, 04:55:40 PM

My heart and prayers go to you, your boy and grandson..
and a big major  :grouphug; to you..

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: paris on April 14, 2008, 07:33:03 PM

OB, I am so sorry for all of you.  We are going through a similar situation.  My son has been married for 13 years. They started dating in high school, stayed together even though they were in different colleges hundreds of miles apart. Married after college graduation.  Just about a year ago, he told me he had been holding the marraige together for a long time but couldn't do it anymore.  As a family, we had no idea there were problems.  They never disagreed or gave any indication that things weren't anything but perfect.  They have 3 children; 10, 4 and 2.  The pain of watching your child go through the seperation process is very hard.  We can no longer make things better for them. We can just be there to remind them how much they are loved.  My heart hurts so much for the kids.  They seem to be doing ok, but I worry the most about the 10 yr old.  Reading your post, well, I just wanted to cry right along with you. And then to lose his job----it is really too much to handle at one time.  I'll keep all of you in my prayers.  You all deserve a break. It just seems like it is one thing after another.  Take care.  :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: annabanana on April 14, 2008, 07:53:32 PM

How very very sad...
Sending good thoughts of strength and love to all of you.

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: kidney4traci on April 14, 2008, 09:15:26 PM

I am sad right there with ya.  Maybe it is the night before the dawn?  Hope so in his case.  Pray it all turns around quickly.  Especially with kids involved.   :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: okarol on April 14, 2008, 09:53:32 PM

I am so sorry OB. And to Paris as well. All we hope for is for our kids to be happy.
And it's especially heartbreaking with the grandchildren involved. Sending you hugs!  :cuddle;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: rose1999 on April 14, 2008, 11:17:52 PM

My heart hurts for you OB, for your son and Tyler and for Paris and her family too.  I send my love to all of you and will pray that things work out for the best. Hang in there. :grouphug;  :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: twirl on April 15, 2008, 07:55:48 AM

I''m hoping and praying that you feel better this morning :cuddle;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: NolaGail on April 15, 2008, 07:58:57 AM

Hoping today is a better day for you.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers   :grouphug;.

NolaGail

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: Ohio Buckeye on April 15, 2008, 12:36:05 PM

Thanks for all your kind comments.
I am sorry Paris that you too are going through this heartache.
It is hard to believe that this is a common occurence that goes on all the time.

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: kitkatz on April 15, 2008, 03:37:36 PM

It is so hard when relationships break up.  Love those grandkids.   :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: Earlinda on April 15, 2008, 07:21:24 PM

 :big hug: I am sad right along with you.  It seems way to many lives are touched by this tragic end to a marriage.  Me included.  I will keep your families in my prayers that the dawn will come soon.

Earlinda

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: paddbear0000 on April 16, 2008, 09:58:53 AM

Oh, OB! I'm so sorry! Please give your son a big hug for me. And keep some for yourself!  :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: Romona on April 16, 2008, 01:08:56 PM

OB and Paris, thinking of you both and your families.  :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: jbeany on April 16, 2008, 09:14:27 PM

 :grouphug;

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: twirl on April 17, 2008, 04:36:19 AM

Morning has broken; like the first morning ;musicalnote; ;musicalnote;

hope you have a sunny shiny day

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: 2_DallasCowboys on April 17, 2008, 04:54:59 AM

OB,

So sorry to read this.  Please know that you and
your family are in my prayers :grouphug;

Anne

Title: Re: sad today
Post by: Sunny on April 17, 2008, 01:16:12 PM

Ouch! That must really hurt.
Plus losing his job on top of it all.
I am wishing the best for you all. He is lucky to have a loving mother like you.