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Title: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Jay72 on February 27, 2008, 09:29:38 AM
Hello everyone, My name is Jason and I am 35.  I have had two kidney transplants and have recently found out that I will have to go back on hemo within the next few months.  A quick history of my situation.  I was born with kidney disease and knew from a very young age that I would need a transplant at some point in time.  I have no siblings so my parents were both tested and turned out my Mom was a match.  So when I was 20 it was time for my transplant.  All went perfect with a few minor bout of rejection.  Then somehow I ended up with CMV which pretty much caused sever chronic rejection.  So after 3 years with my mom's kidney I was on dialysis.  (I never had dialysis before the transplant because we knew that it was needed and I was transplanted before dialysis had to be started)  I had a fistula done about a year before I started dialysis so when I stated  I had an access already, mind you not a very strong one.  After a short time on the main floor of hemo I went on to do "self care" at the same hospital, where I did pretty much everything myself, mind you I hated doing my own needles.  Well I stated dialysis in January of 96 and on February 9, 1999 I got the call that they had a kidney for me.  Had the transplant (cadaveric) and all went absolutly perfect, no rejection nothing.  But.... in 2002 I had an absess (sp?) whcih burst and I went septic.  Needless to say this damaged my transplant severly.  I went from a creatine of 120 to 680 then the doctors were able to get it back down to around 280, which was much better.   But they told me that the transplat took a lot of damage and that more than likly things would progressivly get worse over the next few years.  Well I now have a cr of 450 and have to go see a vascular surgeon on March 11, and find out about having another fistula tied in.  I had the old one tied off for my job. 

I still work full time in a factory as a welder, but I now find that I am very tired again and usually work and sleep, and try to spend time with my wife and 9 yr old tiwn boys.

I am also very interested in home hemo, as here in the London area (Canada) they seem to really try to promote home hemo, but I need to do more research on that and I hope to learn lots on this site.  I really look forward to your input and information and hope that I can help whereever possible as well, as I do have quite a bit of knowledge as well.

Thanks for taking the time to read this, so stay postive and all will work out.

Jay Hammond
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Joe Paul on February 27, 2008, 09:40:54 AM
Welcome Jay, good to have you aboard.
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: willieandwinnie on February 27, 2008, 09:52:16 AM
 :welcomesign; Jason. You'll find lots of information here. Keep us updated.
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Sluff on February 27, 2008, 10:07:37 AM
You came to the right place Jay so welcome to ihatedialysis.com

Sorry to hear your going back on hemo, I guess you really know what your future holds. There are a few topics on home hemo and the difference it makes. You have been at this a long time so you should have an idea what your getting into which is more that some do. I wish you luck my friend and know that we are here for you. Don't be a stranger.

Sluff/ Admin
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Psim on February 27, 2008, 10:10:09 AM
Hello from across  :canadaflag; Twins! That must keep you on your toes. Welcome to IHD!
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: kidney4traci on February 27, 2008, 10:13:35 AM
Ji Jay!  Twin boys?? OMG, I have an 8 year old boy - can't imaginge how much fun it must be to have two of 'em!   :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: kellyt on February 27, 2008, 10:14:17 AM
 :waving;  Amazing story.  Glad you found IHD!!!!!
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: rose1999 on February 27, 2008, 10:29:25 AM
Hi Jay and  :welcomesign; from  :ukflag;, good to have you on board.
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: paris on February 27, 2008, 10:36:01 AM
 :welcomesign; Jay, thanks for sharing your story.  You have a lot to share with us.  Glad you found us.   :thumbup;
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: livecam on February 27, 2008, 10:37:45 AM
Welcome to the site Jason.  Check with Brenda (username) about home hemo.  She is in Canada and is an old hand at home hemo.  She could probably be of some help to you.  Welcome aboard!
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Romona on February 27, 2008, 01:47:31 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: xtrememoosetrax on February 27, 2008, 03:41:43 PM
Wow, you've been through a lot, and you've been going through it for a long time!  Welcome to IHD.  There's a ton of information and support available here, so keep coming back!  We will be looking forward to getting to know you better.
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Ang on February 27, 2008, 08:09:43 PM
 :welcomesign;   aboard  jay
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: brenda on February 27, 2008, 09:20:02 PM
Welcome to another fellow Canadian.  :canadaflag; I would be more than happy to help answer any questions or relieve any fears you may have with home hemo. As livecam said I have been doing home hemo for a very long time.

Jeff did you just call me old?  :-\
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Bajanne on February 28, 2008, 11:53:08 AM
welcome to our community!  this is from a fellow member of the Commonwealth!  Happy to have you with us.  This is just the place to be when faced by this renal challenge.  This is a place for information and empowerment, venting and raging, fun and laughter, just plain nonsense sometimes, sadness and farewells, and lots of love and support.   :grouphug; this is the IHD family.  Keep reading and keep posting - we want to know how you are doing.


Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: kitkatz on February 28, 2008, 08:17:29 PM
Wow! You have stories to tell, I bet.  Welcome to the site.  I hope all goes well for you as you begin dialysis again.


Kitkatz,moderator
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: keefer51 on February 29, 2008, 01:36:06 AM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Clancy1600 on March 02, 2008, 07:42:24 PM
It looks like you and I became members of IHD on the same day.  Welcome to you!
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: CW on March 03, 2008, 07:52:53 AM
Well Jay first I would like to say  :welcomesign; to the forum

You came to the right place to learn about home hemo - there are a lot of threads on that issue, explore and I am sure you will find every aspect of home dialysis discussed here. Sorry your TX failed but rest assured we can make it either way!

Good luck  :thumbup;

CW
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: Jay72 on March 25, 2008, 07:20:24 AM
Thanks to everyone, for the welcome.  Since I first posted with my situation, I have met with the home hemo unit and the surgeon.  I have a fistula done tomorrow and so far it seems like our house will be fine for the hemo to be done here.  i will keep udated.
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: boxman55 on March 25, 2008, 12:22:49 PM
Wlcome Jay 72 you can bring a ton of knowledge to this site and we are glad to have you as a member

Boxman,Moderator
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: lola on March 25, 2008, 12:33:42 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Hello, I'am Jay from St. Marys, Ontario
Post by: monrein on April 07, 2008, 05:21:39 PM
Hi Jay
I'm new here and I'm from Toronto.  I did home dialysis from 1980-1985 (with some months in hospital thrown in there) and I'm about to go back on dialysis probably around June so that sounds a lot like what you're facing.  I'm having a new access created on Apr. 15th, which is fast approaching so maybe we can keep our fingers crossed for each other.  I much preferred home hemo to in center and also much prefer needling myself.  Doesn't hurt nearly as much in my opinion but of course everyone's different.  I love your small town and have been there often. I used to see about 7 or 8 plays a year in Stratford but mostly stayed in St. Marys.  This is a great site and I look forward to hearing more from you.
Gail