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Off-Topic => Off-Topic: Talk about anything you want. => Topic started by: KICKSTART on January 17, 2008, 10:57:15 AM

Title: I'm stressed but ..woo hoo who cares!
Post by: KICKSTART on January 17, 2008, 10:57:15 AM
My miserable ,controlling, inconsiderate ,thoughtless, selfish ex husband has ..filed for divorce!!!! :bandance; ,,
Title: Re: I'm stressed but ..woo hoo who cares!
Post by: willieandwinnie on January 17, 2008, 11:01:19 AM
 :yahoo; LET HIM PAY.  :bandance;
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Post by: jbeany on January 17, 2008, 11:04:59 AM
Ahhh, the algebra of relationships - where you look at your x and wonder y you ever wanted to be with him. . .

Hope the paperwork goes smoothly for you!
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Post by: st789 on January 17, 2008, 11:28:47 AM
Take it easy and take care!
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Post by: kitkatz on January 17, 2008, 04:18:17 PM
Divorce from you or from the new wife?  Just asking, no meaning to be rude here.
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Post by: KT0930 on January 17, 2008, 05:20:37 PM
Kickstart, what a great feeling! Enjoy the freedom from the jerk!
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Post by: goofynina on January 17, 2008, 07:56:41 PM
Kickstart, if you need us all to show up in court with you, you know we will do it :)  (and wouldnt it be a sight) lol,  You come and rant if you need to or ask questions or whatever it may be that you need to make YOU all better.  We are here for YOU and we care about YOU and we love YOU ;)    :grouphug;
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Post by: Sluff on January 18, 2008, 04:47:19 AM
Divorce is a hard thing to go through no matter if you are glad or not. Emotions get all fouled up. If you need us we are here.  :grouphug;
Title: Re: I'm stressed but ..woo hoo who cares!
Post by: KICKSTART on January 18, 2008, 09:46:02 AM
Thanks everyone for words of support. My emotions are fine as i cant wait to get a divorce and wipe that B****d out of my life!  might be facing this illness alone , but believe me its far easier to do that , then be with him! I hardly cry now ..only at sad animal things! I dont have to listen to rants, arguements,tantrums,i can 'allow' myself to be ill and have off days. I can stay in my jim-jams all day if i want too. I can eat what and when i want. I can sleep for as long as i want..ooooo the list is endless..Its a shame you guys are sooo far away , we could have had a divorce party !!! :birthday; :bandance; :wine;
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Post by: paris on January 18, 2008, 10:53:10 AM
Tell us what day and we will all party with you in spirit!  A little :wine;  or  :beer1; and we will all celebrate your freedom :yahoo;.    I know this isn't how you planned your life, but luckily you are able to make the necessary changes and move on.   You realize life is too short and you need to live it the best you can.   We love you and are here if you need a shoulder.   :cuddle;
Title: Re: I'm stressed but ..woo hoo who cares!
Post by: KT0930 on January 18, 2008, 12:00:45 PM
Thanks everyone for words of support. My emotions are fine as i cant wait to get a divorce and wipe that B****d out of my life! might be facing this illness alone , but believe me its far easier to do that , then be with him! I hardly cry now ..only at sad animal things! I dont have to listen to rants, arguements,tantrums,i can 'allow' myself to be ill and have off days. I can stay in my jim-jams all day if i want too. I can eat what and when i want. I can sleep for as long as i want..ooooo the list is endless..Its a shame you guys are sooo far away , we could have had a divorce party !!! :birthday; :bandance; :wine;

I met my current husband before my divorce was final, and we remained friends for nearly two years before we started dating...he actually recommended a divorce party for me at the time. (Mine ended up being him proposing the night after my divorce was final).