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Introduction => Introduce Yourself => Topic started by: redz812 on January 08, 2008, 01:48:58 PM

Title: Redz intro
Post by: redz812 on January 08, 2008, 01:48:58 PM
Hi Everyone,

I am married for 31 yrs to my husband, Bob. Bob was a juvenile diabetic from the age of 13. He had many small problems over the years, but that all changed in 1991.

In 1991 he started feeling unwell and progressively got more and more weak. A visit to the Dr diagnosed high bp. Long story short is that, he was eventually diagnosed with ESRD and went on PD while getting listed for a pancreas/kidney transplant. He only had to wait 6 mos for his transplant. The call came at midnite on the day after Christmas in 1992. A sad holiday for someone but a very happy one for us.

The transplanted organs lasted for 15 yrs. A really long time and we didn't know how good we had it until the kidney failed in April of 2007.

Bob is currently doing Nexstage Purflow system at home dialysis. Things are going pretty good but boy does it take up the day!

You never know what life has in store for you but we are hanging in there. I especially appreciate this message board and others that I visit. I thank you all for your time, experiences, help and stories.
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: MyssAnne on January 08, 2008, 02:13:25 PM
Welcome, Redz!!!

You are right, until you lose it, you dont appreciate what you had!!  Sure glad you're here,
you should be able to give US tips as well!!

 :welcomesign; :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Joe Paul on January 08, 2008, 02:22:47 PM
Welcome  Redz, good to have you aboard.
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: oswald on January 08, 2008, 02:29:47 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Hawkeye on January 08, 2008, 02:45:57 PM
Hello and  :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: willieandwinnie on January 08, 2008, 02:56:33 PM
 :welcomesign; redz812,

Glad you found us. You'll find all kinds of information and support here. Again, WELCOME.

Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: boxman55 on January 08, 2008, 03:04:23 PM
Welcome to IHD...Boxman
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: kellyt on January 08, 2008, 04:00:00 PM
 :waving;

And you're right - I'm thankful every time I have to go pee!   ;D

 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Sluff on January 08, 2008, 04:17:33 PM
Welcome to ihatedialysis.com Redz,

You bring to mind that no matter your situation, you never know what you will wake up to in the morning. We all need to appreciate what we do have,(even if they are small blessings) a little more.
Thank you for stopping here, I hope you enjoy your stay. Feel free to stop in often and post all you want.


Sluff/ Admin
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: bolta72 on January 08, 2008, 04:52:20 PM
Funny in a way, we never know how good we had it until something happens. Best of luck to you and  :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: petey on January 08, 2008, 05:37:41 PM
Hey, Redz!  Glad to see another spouse here (I'm a dialysis spouse).  My hubby kept his transplant for a little over three years, and, you're right -- it hits you hard when you lose it and makes you realize how good it was.  But, for your sweetie and for mine, it will be good again.  I keep telling myself that, and I'm hoping the same for you.

petey
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: rookiegirl on January 08, 2008, 06:29:39 PM
 :welcomesign; to IHD
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Romona on January 08, 2008, 08:36:28 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Mimi on January 08, 2008, 10:26:37 PM
Come right in, sit right down, and honey let your hair hang down.
 :welcomesign;

Mimi
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Bajanne on January 09, 2008, 02:51:13 AM
Welcome to our community!  We are so glad that you decided to join us.  You will find that there are lots of people here because of the renal failure of their loved one.  I always appreciate the love that this manifests.  there is lots going on here - above all, we have become a real family.  so take advantage of all that this site has to offer.  and especially, keep posting.  We need to know how your husband is doing.  when you need to vent- we are here.   :grouphug;


Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: thegrammalady on January 09, 2008, 03:00:27 AM
 :welcomesign;  you've landed in a very good place.
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: goofynina on January 09, 2008, 09:16:46 PM
Hi Redz, welcome to ihatedialysis.com  :waving;  Looking forward to hearing more from you soon. :)


Goofynina/Admin.
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: kitkatz on January 09, 2008, 09:30:50 PM
Welcome to the site.  It is great whenever spouses join in the conversations. You have a whole other viewpoint.




kitkatz,moderator




Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: KR Cincy on January 10, 2008, 08:16:58 AM
 :welcomesign;
Yep it's hard...but we're here for you if you need a shoulder or a sounding board. Good luck!!
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: keefer51 on January 11, 2008, 01:46:36 AM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Ken Shelmerdine on January 11, 2008, 04:53:51 AM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Katonsdad on January 11, 2008, 06:15:19 PM
 :welcomesign;

I too was diagnosed with Diabetes at 13 yrs old . Giagnosed with ESRD in 93 fought it for a year or so
and then PD and Hemo ....Had a Kidney/Panc transplant in 1999 . Still going strong ,

This is a great place , my wife even joined (Kevinswife) 

Katonsdad
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: Ang on January 11, 2008, 08:31:26 PM
welcome  aboard  redz :thumbup;
Title: Re: Redz intro
Post by: angellady07 on January 14, 2008, 12:25:25 PM
Welcome.  :welcomesign;