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Teen mixes good manners with bad kidney
Illnesses of boy, sister put financial burden on their family of five
By Lola Alapo
Sunday, December 16, 2007
For every needle prick that doctors have given Jesse Cole McCarter, he's said "thank you."
With every surgery, he's never fussed.
He and his family recently received a 1:30 a.m. Sunday call that doctors had found him a kidney. Blood tests revealed, however, that his body would reject the organ.
Even with that disappointment, he never complained.
"You just have to say it wasn't meant to be," said his mother, Teresa McCarter. "God will find him a better one."
McCarter calls her 16-year-old son, who goes by Cole, a thankful boy who was "born with manners."
The McCarters, including dad James, sister Jamie and brother Todd, this holiday season will receive a 70-pound food basket from the News Sentinel Empty Stocking Fund. The publicly funded charity will brighten the lives of about 8,000 East Tennesseans this holiday season.
Having food for Christmas is one less thing the family has to worry about amid concerns over the child-ren's health, McCarter said.
Jamie McCarter 24, was born with kidney disease and is herself awaiting a kidney transplant.
"The basket is just wonderful," Tereas McCarter said. "To me, it's like my Christmas present. I love going through it. It lasts days after with the things that you need."
Three days a week, McCarter drives Jamie and Cole from Seymour to dialysis in Knoxville.
Cole is awaiting a second kidney transplant. His appendix ruptured when he was 2 1/2, damaging his organs, McCarter said.
He received his first kidney from his mom in May 2000, but that organ is failing.
Cole wasn't able to chat Wednesday when the News Sentinel visited him at the University of Tennessee Medical Center's pediatric dialysis center. He wasn't feeling up to it during the procedure.
When he's not at the hospital, Cole, a high school sophomore, is taking lessons from a teacher who comes to his home or playing video games with his buddies, McCarter said.
He's never been on a bike. He's always wanted to take karate, but doctors have cautioned against it because of his health.
The children's illnesses have taken a financial toll on the family. McCarter is unable to work right now because she drives both Cole and Jamie to dialysis. The process takes three to four hours a day.
The family is behind on phone payments. It's often a choice between paying for groceries or bills, McCarter said.
Sometimes the family's situation is so overwhelming it moves McCarter to tears, she said.
"It's really hard," she said. "If you don't have faith, this will beat you down."
Still, McCarter is grateful for loved ones and for the staff at the medical center, who have been like family. They've worked with the family since Cole was 3.
The children's illness shows "you have to thank God for everything you have," she said. "People take their health for granted. They don't thank the Lord for their health."
Lola Alapo may be reached at 865-342-6376.
http://www.knoxnews.com/news/2007/dec/16/teen-mixes-good-manners-with-bad-kidney/
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there is always someone worse off...Sad Boxman
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Very sad. I hope there are resources out there for them, they really need them desperately.
The boy sounds like such a sweetheart.