I Hate Dialysis Message Board
Dialysis Discussion => Dialysis: General Discussion => Topic started by: poohkari on November 07, 2007, 06:15:45 PM
-
I'm not going to be on here anymore because Wade (or his parents, who knows) has decided to move to Memphis and not take me with him. So, im moving back in to my moms house in NY while I try to get things together for me. This is a huge shock for me that came out of nowhere. I dont think ill ever be able to be the same.
You all have been an immense help through the past 6 months. I wish you all nothing but the best, and you will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
xoxoxoxoxoox
-
Poohkari,
You have done an incredible job of taking care of Wade, researching for him, supporting him in many ways and juggling so much responsibility. I am sorry to hear this and I really wish things could be different. I hope you keep coming back here. We really want to know that you're ok, no matter what.
Best wishes to you!
:cuddle;
-
:cuddle; :cuddle; you can still hang with us since no matter what we're still family
-
you don't have to leave. you are still part of the IHD family. please stay. :grouphug; :grouphug;
-
I am so sorry this has happened to you- you can still come here you know- it sounds like you will still need support as a human, and we all feel like we know you, so please- feel free to come back anytime to vent or to just be with us. You dont have to have a kidney issue to come here- you've already made friends here, your welcome to keep us if you would like. :grouphug;
-
sorry your going through this please stay :grouphug;
-
PoohKari, please do stay. We need you as muich as you need us. :grouphug;
-
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please consider staying.
:grouphug;
Amanda
xxxoo
-
I am so sorry. I don't know what to say to comfort you. :grouphug; :grouphug; I hope Wade and his family know that they owe you a great debt. I do hope you will come back to let us know how you are doing. We will worry about you, you know. Be kind to yourself and get some much needed rest. :grouphug;
-
I hope it all works out for you soon.
-
:grouphug; Kari, you were a great support to Wade. In time I am sure this will become apparent to all involved in the move.
I wish you well and please drop in here and tell us how you are going. :cuddle;
-
So sorry this is happening to you. I hope no matter what happens, you will be alright :grouphug;
-
Please stay. I live in Pennsylvania so thats not so far from NY. This dialysis bs is crazy. my ex left me with my kids in Nashville. She couldn't take it anymore. If you need to talk please do.
-
Don't leave us... :'( :'( :'( You have added so much to our lives here at IHD. Please stay here, you have experienced so much in a short time, and we really enjoy your posts. Hope your Mom has a computer. Please check in with us when you get settled. We loves ya girl. :-*
-
I hope you stay with us Kari...we love your spirit and, of course, you bring some real rock & roll sensibility to the boards!
Take good care of yourself and know that we'll be here if you need us.
-
Hang around we will miss you greatly if you don't...Boxman
-
Take some time to recover from this.. do some nice things. Then drop in here from time to time let us know how you are doing. :cuddle;
-
Please........... I am joining with the others. You are family now. There is absolutely no reason for you not to continue to post. We really don't want to lose you. Who knows what might work out in the future. For the present, we are here for you. Feel free to vent, or rage right here if you need to. That is what family is for.
From all of us :grouphug;
and from me :cuddle;
-
Kari,
Sending you my best wishes from NJ. Please remember that this
board is here if you need to vent- you have been thru so much
maybe now take some time for you-and please let all of us
know how you are!
Anne
-
OMG Kari! I'm so sorry! Please stay. We will miss you too much if you leave! :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle;
-
Sorry things are crummy for you now. :grouphug;
-
Kari, there is so much i want to say but i dont think here is the place to do it, this really pisses me off. You hang in there girlfriend and remember, we are here for you always :grouphug;
-
thanks guys, it really means a lot that so many of you care and appreciated the help i was given. i'll check in so often. i just booked my flight home for tuesday. now that wades mom has joined the boards, hopefully she will get invo;ved and keep you all up to date on him.
-
Wade doesn't know what he'll be missing -- yet! You did your best for him, and you've also got a wonderful future ahead for yourself. Good luck.
-
Yep, that is sooo true, you know the saying, you never realize how much you need or care about someone until they are gone, dont be surprised if he shows up at your front door :)
-
Yep, that is sooo true, you know the saying, you never realize how much you need or care about someone until they are gone, dont be surprised if he shows up at your front door :)
not if his parents have anything to do with it!!! there was a reason i wasnt welcome to move back home with him....
-
That is just so damn ridiculous, he is a grown man >:(....oh, dont get me started :P Poohkari, you just hang in there and do what is best for YOU now, you have spent the last 6 months doing everything you could for him and this is the thanks you get?? MEN!! UGH!! :banghead;
-
Again, I'm just so sorry this happened to you. You seem like such a great person. Just know that you have a lot of true friends here. :cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle;
-
Kari,
Hang in there baby. Try to do whatever you can to take care of yourself now - hopefully Wade will get his sh*t together but in the meantime you should have some fun for a change!
:cuddle;
-
Again, everyone, thanks.
I'm going home to NY and my mom is ready to spoil me, and let me take care of myself. I'm actually quite looking forward to it.
-
You really deserve a break. This is a terrible way to get it. :(
-
Again, everyone, thanks.
I'm going home to NY and my mom is ready to spoil me, and let me take care of myself. I'm actually quite looking forward to it.
That is so good to hear, YOU GO GIRL, :yahoo;
-
I hope Kari is well and taking care of herself. She got shit on and I think it is horrible.
:christmastree; Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Kari. :grouphug;
-
:grouphug;
-
We miss you. I hope you check in soon. Take care of yourself. :cuddle;
-
Oh my gosh! I can't believe I never saw this thread.
Kari - I hope all is going well for you and hope to hear an update soon. As a fellow caregiver I know how hard it is. I hope Wade has come to his senses and realizes what he has done. As for his parents, ugh! Shame on them!
I hope you have a wonderful holiday and that the new year brings you much love, luck and joy!
Take care!
-
Kari, hope we hear from you soon. We all worry about you. You are a wonderful, strong, compassionate woman and we are all proud to know you. I hope you Mom is doing a good job of spoiling you!!
-
Hang in there PoohKari, where ever you are, and we hope your doing good and we hear from you soon, we care girlfriend :grouphug;
-
I miss Kari and Sara so much. :(
I hope they both have wonderful holidays. :santahat; :snowman; :christmastree;
-
I miss Sara, too. Wonder how she is doing with the holidays? It has to be hard for her. Hope she knows we still think of her often.
-
Happy New Year, everyone!
I hope you're all doing great - with no hospital stays, and good dialysis for everyone. I'm hanging in there - things got pretty ugly recently, but now that i've let go of everything, i'm doing much better. I can only send Wade my best wishes and be thankful for the times that were good, while refusing to let myself get broken by the circumstances.
I move into Brooklyn February 1, coincidentally into the same bedroom and apartment I lived in 4 years ago! Same roomate, too, who is a great friend, so I am really getting excited! It will be nice to just have to worry about and take care of ME! It's been far too long!
I hope everyone had a great holiday - you are all always in my thoughts!
xoxo kari
-
so glad to hear from you!!! Everyone here hopes you will stay in touch, you might not be a dialysis patient- but you can just be a normal friend!! :)
so what are you up to in Brooklyn? Got a job yet?
-
Glad to hear from you Pooh!!!
I'm sorry things got ugly for you. I guess it wasn't to be, unfortunately.
I'm glad you have a new apartment, well, not really new, but it's a fresh start!
You are always welcome! Please DO let us know how you are!!!
-
:waving; Hey Kari!
It's so good to hear from you - your post is optimistic and I am happy to hear you're looking forward!
Please keep in touch!
-
Hi Kari, good to hear from you. Any new tatoos ;D...Boxman
-
A survivor..yeah!! :yahoo; Glad to see you are up and running.
-
Happy New year to you too, good to see you :thumbup;
-
That a girl! You ROCK! :yahoo;
-
Poohkari, :cuddle;
I think about you often. I hope you continue to come here every so often to let us know how you are doing. We really want to know that you're ok, no matter what.
-
Poohkari, :cuddle;
I think about you often. I hope you continue to come here every so often to let us know how you are doing. We really want to know that you're ok, no matter what.
yes, we want to hear from you every now and again when you can fit us into what i am sure will be a very busy schedule. enjoy yourself, you deserve it.
-
How in the world did I miss this thread??
Anyway, Kari, I'm sorry things had to go the way they did, but I'm glad to hear that you're getting back to your life and looking forward to things. Please keep us updated on what you're up to and take care of yourself!
-
Happy New Year to you as well. It's great to see a post from you. Take care of yourself and check in with us when you can. :waving;
-
Sounds like things may be turning out for you for the best. Glad to hear it.
-
Thinking of you girlfriend and hoping nothing but the best comes your way :waving; Dont be a stranger ok, we love ya :grouphug;
-
Great to read you are moving forward Kari. Good Luck in Brooklyn! :)
-
thank you for sharing that with us. we see you as part of the family and hope you will continue to let us know how you are doing. i really appreciated the hopeful attitude that came through your posting. You just keep on keeping on, girlfriend! :cuddle;
-
Kari,
Sorry I did not see this until this morning-
so happy to read you are getting it together!
Happy New Year :beer1;
Keep us all updated on how everything is going-
:waving; :waving;
Anne
-
i am sorry I did not see this thread until now also! I do not think Wade understands how lucky he was to have you that accepted him and his situation. There are not a lot of people waiting around to date people with small issues let alone renal failure!
You deserve so much better. I mean, if he moves without u just because of his parents. You would have always been number two in his life.
Take care of you.
-
there are too many posts to keep up with!!!!
i feel retty selfish for only posting on this thread, but you are just too busy and i really cant keep up!
i miss wade every second of every day, he is in my dreams every single night, and im stilll havng a rough time. apparently he not only has met someone else, but he has moved in with her as well.
(deep breath)
im styaing out on long island through the summer - its lame, but im not ready to be on my own yet. i feel stupid fragile. i jst wish i meant something to someone who meant so much to me.
i miss you terribly, all of you.
xoxo kari
-
You will find someone eventually. Don't rush things, you have some emotional baggage ( I mean this in a loving way)to sort out about you and Wade, once you are at peace with things the guy's will be all around and you can do the choosing. One day at a time. There are a lot of lonely people in the world. I wish you the best. :-*
-
Kari, Sorry to hear you are still emotionally involved. It takes time, everyone is different. The qualities you portrayed on these forums tells me you are a very special woman who deserves a very special man. Please know that sooner then later you will find him and be able to move forward. Please stay in touch...Boxman
-
Kari :cuddle; Let yourself grieve and then let yourself LIVE. You deserve it. You are a special person and someone just as special will come along when your ready. Please keep letting us know how your doing. We care. :grouphug;
-
Kari I missed this thread but I have just read all the way through it. I'm so sorry you're emotions are still in turmoil. You didn't deserve this and Wade certainly did not deserve your love for him. Take care. :grouphug;
-
You do mean something to someone, look at all the people on here who care about you. I agree with Sluff, take one day at a time and if that's too much then just take one hour at a time. It will get better, I lost my husband and it's hard, but you can go on and you can have a life - just a different one. Please know that we all care. :grouphug;
:bunny:
-
get on a computer in NY and keep in touch
you have knowledge and understanding, and we need that :'(
we still need you :thumbup;
-
i'm so sorry! Wade has no idea what he lost. Please keep in touch more often. We care about you! :cuddle; :cuddle;
-
Kari, just remember wades new chica is a REBOUND. It takes time to get over someone you loved. :big hug:
-
Kari, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time with losing Wade. As others have said, though, take all the time you need, and you'll find the right life for you when you're ready. Take care of yourself, and know that we miss you.
-
Dear Kari,
I can't believe I just now saw this thread - over 7 months late!! I had been wondering about not seeing you on the boards. I remember you, fondly, as you were the first person I made a connection with, here. You were/ARE sooo sweet. I hope things are going well/better for you, these days. I would like to add my post to all the others in saying *I miss you, too, and hope you'll keep in touch by letting us know how you're doing*.
Once family . . . always family . . . :cuddle;
Huge hugs,
Charlene aka MyRenalRomance
-
Always take care of yourself and take one day at a time..that is how I was able to make it, and I always tell people, the right one will come around the corner at the right time for you, don't give up on yourself.