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Dialysis Discussion => Dialysis: Transplant Discussion => Topic started by: vandie on October 25, 2007, 05:56:33 PM

Title: Letter from my donor's family
Post by: vandie on October 25, 2007, 05:56:33 PM
I wrote a letter to my donor's family right after transplant.  Along with mine I sent one from my daughter and a few from loved ones who wanted to share their gratitude.
Last week at clinic, I received a response.  It was from my donor's wife.  She was so pleased and comforted that her husband's death resulted in so many people being blessed with the gift of life.  It was a heartwarming letter that made me cry.  I plan on staying in touch with her and her family.

If you have had a transplant and are hesitating to write a letter, please write that letter.

xoxo
Title: Re: Letter from my donor's family
Post by: okarol on October 25, 2007, 06:11:37 PM
I wrote a letter to my donor's family right after transplant.  Along with mine I sent one from my daughter and a few from loved ones who wanted to share their gratitude.
Last week at clinic, I received a response.  It was from my donor's wife.  She was so pleased and comforted that her husband's death resulted in so many people being blessed with the gift of life.  It was a heartwarming letter that made me cry.  I plan on staying in touch with her and her family.

If you have had a transplant and are hesitating to write a letter, please write that letter.

xoxo

Thanks Vandie, for sharing that. It is such a generous gift that a family passes along - and to have their effort acknowledged and appreciated must be comforting to them after losing a loved one.
 :2thumbsup;
Title: Re: Letter from my donor's family
Post by: goofynina on October 25, 2007, 07:59:21 PM
Vandie, you are a sweetheart and i am honored to call you Sistah ;) ;)  :cuddle;
Title: Re: Letter from my donor's family
Post by: Rerun on October 25, 2007, 09:36:14 PM
Yes, because that is all they get is a letter and the comfort knowing their loved one lives on in someone else.

After 6 years I finally met my donor's family back in 1993.  We have been close ever since and still write even though my kidney is gone.
When I finally lost my kidney they grieved with me.
Title: Re: Letter from my donor's family
Post by: Sluff on October 26, 2007, 04:39:41 AM
Vandie girl you are so very special. Glad you wrote that letter and I'm glad you received a response.  :-*  :grouphug;