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Title: my father died
Post by: shivashankerprasad on April 29, 2007, 11:09:35 PM

My father Mr shivashankerprasad died on 19/4/07.he was 66 yeras old and was on dialysis since last two years.
he complined of severe back pain and was taken to hospital where he was declared dead.





EDITED:  Corrected Spelling of "Father" in Title - Rerun, Moderator

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: charee on April 29, 2007, 11:11:40 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: goofynina on April 29, 2007, 11:15:11 PM

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father.  Thank you for coming and letting us know.  Our prayers and our sympathy goes out to you and your family.  :grouphug;

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: Joe Paul on April 30, 2007, 12:13:58 AM

Sorry for your loss, my condolences to you.

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: Wattle on April 30, 2007, 12:22:02 AM

I am sorry to hear of your loss.    :cuddle;

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: Amanda From OZ on April 30, 2007, 03:26:00 AM

I am so sorry to hear.... My thoughts are with you and your family.  :grouphug;

Amanda

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: Sara on April 30, 2007, 05:33:54 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss.  If you feel up to sharing details, I am curious what could have happened so suddenly (and with the back pain).  It might be helpful for members here to know what to look for. 

 :cuddle;

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: KICKSTART on April 30, 2007, 08:06:14 AM

R.I.P.

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: st789 on April 30, 2007, 08:11:49 AM

Sorry for the loss.  Rest in peace.

Title: Re: my fathe died
Post by: Chicken Little on April 30, 2007, 09:50:07 AM

I'm so sorry.   :grouphug;

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: Rerun on April 30, 2007, 10:11:11 AM

He is in a better place where dialysis is not needed.  Prayers to you and your family for your loss.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: MyssAnne on April 30, 2007, 10:31:25 AM

I am so sorry. What a shock for you and your family.  We'll be thinking and praying of and for you and your family. :grouphug;

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: paris on April 30, 2007, 10:58:28 AM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: Kathleen on April 30, 2007, 12:14:17 PM

Sorry for your loss.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: Hawkeye on April 30, 2007, 12:32:05 PM

I am sorry for your and your families loss.  :grouphug;

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: kitkatz on April 30, 2007, 09:28:49 PM

Much love and sympathy to you and your family on your loss.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: anja on April 30, 2007, 09:49:13 PM

     :'(    I always enjoyed hearing from your father, so sorry that he passed away so young!  Please know our sincere sympathy is sent to you and your family.   :grouphug;    :grouphug;    :grouphug;    :grouphug;

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: Jill D. on May 01, 2007, 08:27:47 PM

So sorry to hear the news. Hugs  :grouphug; to you and your family.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: nextnoel on May 02, 2007, 12:34:23 PM

I'm so sorry you're suffered such a big loss; my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: shivashankerprasad on May 02, 2007, 10:24:56 PM

well thanks for the thought and concern.
we are very shocked and still cant believe his death.
we still behave the way as if he is with us.
i also want to know if a person doesnot have chest pain ,no burning sensation or throat infection how come he died so easily without giving any resistance and that too with back pain?

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: anja on May 02, 2007, 10:55:48 PM

I still have both my parents, so do not pretend to know how you feel.  I do know that disbelief at losing a loved one is normal and that grieving is experienced differently for people, and yours will come. 

As far as your father's only symptom being an intense backache, that is not uncommon either. 

 Sometimes we will never know the full answer, just have to be thankful that he did not lay and suffer for a long period of time. 
Wishing you peace and acceptance with your father's passing.

Where do you live?  Do you have other family members living near you?  Thinking of you!   
 Anja

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: Bajanne on May 03, 2007, 04:42:25 AM

I can understand your shock and puzzlement.  I hope your family is doing well through this.  This is one of the times that the members of a family really need each other.
we will never make sense of death this side of eternity.
My caring thoughts are with you all.  Hold strong!

Another goodbye time for the IHD family.  Not easy at all......

Could you please send us a picture and some information about your father so we can place him in our memorial?  You can email it to Sluff at springer1951@hotmail.com.

Title: Re: my father died
Post by: Sluff on May 03, 2007, 05:40:27 AM

Thank you for letting us know. I'm sorry for the loss of your Father. I've lost both of my parents and they were around the same age as your Dad, I can relate to how you must be feeling today, however it will get easier once you realize how much better he is doing where he is at.  He will be missed.  R.I.P. shivashankerprasad


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Title: Re: my father died
Post by: del on May 03, 2007, 07:03:42 PM

Sorry to hear about your dad.  Keep him alive in your memories.   :cuddle;