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Title: My mum has passed away :(
Post by: myporkchop on November 24, 2016, 07:17:59 PM
After a long battle with her health my dear mum has passed away. She died yesterday morning at 615am in hospital. I was rung at 6am and arrived at 625am. I missed her by 10mins. Im just so devastated. She tried her hardest to live unfortunately all of her health complications took my mum's life in the end. I will miss her for the rest of my life. Thanku all for your support this year.Luv to u all. God bless xxx
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Post by: Jean on November 24, 2016, 08:00:33 PM
 I am so very sorry for your loss. My Mom has been gone for such a long time and I still miss her. God Bless you both/
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Post by: Michael Murphy on November 24, 2016, 08:23:24 PM
My condolences, I too have lost my parents one to lung cancer and the other to a form of multi infarc dementia call binswangers diease.  It's 31 years for my father and about 18 for my mother.  I still miss them but strangely look forward to the occasional dream about each of rhem.
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Post by: Charlie B53 on November 24, 2016, 09:14:09 PM

Very sorry to hear.   We tried so hard, but we can never seem to do enough with the short time we are given.

Prayers
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Post by: Fabkiwi06 on November 24, 2016, 11:57:38 PM
I'm so sorry MyPorkChop. I'm sure she was so proud to have a wonderful and caring daughter like you. We should all be so lucky to be loved like that.  :grouphug;

Love and prayers to you and your family.
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Post by: cassandra on November 25, 2016, 05:00:55 AM
Very sorry to read this MyPorkChop.

Lots of love and strength to you and your family, Cas
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Post by: kickingandscreaming on November 25, 2016, 05:11:43 AM
Oh, MyPorkChop, I'm so sorry.  You both tried so hard.  Be kind to yourself.  I know it's a huge loss for you and your family, but your mother's stuggles are now behind her.  That is something.  Be well and take good care of yourself. K&S
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Post by: smartcookie on November 25, 2016, 06:44:29 AM
I am so so sorry!  I will be praying for peace and grace for you and your family.  From reading your posts, I can say that you did everything you could for your mom.  I will be thinking of you in the days ahead.
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Post by: MooseMom on November 25, 2016, 08:28:29 AM
My deepest condolences.  I know this has been such a difficult ordeal for you both. 
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Post by: Kathymac2 on November 25, 2016, 09:17:12 AM
myporkchop - I'm so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself during this difficult time.

Kathy
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Post by: justagirl2325 on November 25, 2016, 09:22:05 AM
I'm sorry for your loss too, your love and caring for your mother was well expressed in your posts.  You did your very best to help her.
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Post by: kristina on November 25, 2016, 12:55:16 PM
I am very sorry to read this and I send you my deepest condolences,
Kristina. :grouphug;
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Post by: SooMK on November 25, 2016, 01:41:30 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Such an empty place.
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Post by: Jean on November 26, 2016, 03:41:16 PM
 So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I have lost both of my parents well over 50 years ago now and I still miss them both. Sorry, that is not very encouraging, but when you have wonderful parents and you know it, as you did, it is just too darned hard!!
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Post by: DayaraLee on November 27, 2016, 07:34:13 PM
So very very sorry to hear the news of your mum's passing. Words of condolence never seem enough after this kind of lloss. Please know that prayers follow you - for strength, courage, and peace. You worked and worried and advocated so hard for her. Later, I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that you did everything possible that a daughter could.
 :grouphug;
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Post by: Vt Big Rig on November 28, 2016, 08:13:21 AM
So sorry for your loss. 
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Post by: Charlie B53 on November 28, 2016, 08:39:09 AM

Mere words can never express the true depth of the sorrow of losing a Loved One.

Most of us have lost Parents.  We know, and there are no words that will do the job.

Remember the time you did have together.  Perhaps you will be able to make more memories, but until then find a means to take care of yourself because you must continue to  live on.   It isn't easy, but you will learn to continue living.   Take your time, grief is very personal and must be dealt with.  No one can grieve for you.  But be assured there are many of us here that are grieving with you.
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Post by: myporkchop on November 30, 2016, 01:56:26 AM
Thanku all for your kind thoughts and messages. It is now i am feeling her loss as family and friends have left now. I hope i can continue to follow you all through your posts even though i don't have my mum here anymore as i care about a lot of u, esp those who have been in contact with me right from the start. Otherwise i will miss u all too xx
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Post by: Charlie B53 on December 01, 2016, 09:26:49 AM

I'm sure most all here at IHD will agree that we are much like a great big extended Family.  And it hurts us ALL to lose any Member.  When you joined we gained not only you, but your Mum, Brother, and the rest of your whole Family, all became another extended Family of kiidney sufferers.  We are a VERY large Family.

You will always be Welcome here.  This is an alternate Home you can always come to share or seek solace, ask for advise, or simply to tell of how you day went.

We will always be here for you.  Any time you need us, we are here.  That ain't gonna change.

So you take whatever time you need, do what you have to, take care of yourself first.  And when you feel the need, we will still be here for you.

Take Care,

Charlie B53
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Post by: myporkchop on December 01, 2016, 05:17:39 PM
Thanks so much Charlie and everyone at IHD. I really appreciate that. I will be floating around. You all gave my mum hope and that was all I could ask for. So from the bottom of my heart I thank you all xx
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Post by: kickingandscreaming on December 01, 2016, 05:32:13 PM
I wish things had turned out better for your mum, but there is so much in life that we have no control over. You did your best, and that's all anyone can ask of us.  I wish you peace.
Title: Re: My mum has passed away :(
Post by: myporkchop on December 02, 2016, 08:41:53 PM
I wish things had turned out better for your mum, but there is so much in life that we have no control over. You did your best, and that's all anyone can ask of us.  I wish you peace.

Thank you so much K&S, your support has meant a lot to me and my family. Wishing you all the very best xxx