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Title: lost the battle
Post by: brenda seal on August 17, 2013, 05:00:51 AM

Laurie has been in hospital for two weeks battling an infection resulting in septicimea . He passed away yesterday morning and my heart is breaking .

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Post by: MaryD on August 17, 2013, 05:17:39 AM

Oh, Brenda.      :grouphug;

My heart breaks for you, too.  It must feel like the end of the world.  Laurie is at peace now. 

My thoughts are with you and your children.

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Post by: willowtreewren on August 17, 2013, 05:56:32 AM

I am so very sorry, Brenda. I know no words can help with the loss, but I am thinking of you.

 :grouphug;

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Post by: Roxy on August 17, 2013, 06:56:22 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers  :grouphug;

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Post by: big777bill on August 17, 2013, 07:32:19 AM

 My deepest condolances. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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Post by: billybags on August 17, 2013, 07:32:54 AM

Brenda, I am so sorry to hear this. Laurie and your self have been through so much to-gether. There are no words I can say to take your pain away. You and your family will be in my prayers.

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Post by: amanda100wilson on August 17, 2013, 10:16:45 AM

Brenda, I am so sorry to hear this.

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Post by: Big E on August 17, 2013, 10:28:49 AM

I'm so sorry, Brenda.   :cuddle;
Laurie's been through a lot, and so have you.  At least now he's not suffering. You were a wonderful caregiver, by the way...

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Post by: Angiepkd on August 17, 2013, 10:54:37 AM

So sorry for your loss.  Sending you and your family prayers and hugs.  Hang in there!  :grouphug;

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Post by: jeannea on August 17, 2013, 12:22:28 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this. Sympathies to you and your family. You were a wonderful caregiver.  :grouphug;

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Post by: jbeany on August 17, 2013, 12:32:26 PM

 :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;

Thinking of you and hoping you can find peace in good memories.

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Post by: okarol on August 17, 2013, 01:46:28 PM

 :'( Dear Brenda, so sorry to hear of Laurie's passing. You were such a great care partner and I know you did all you could to make his last years happy.
Sending you lots of love.  :grouphug;

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Post by: MooseMom on August 17, 2013, 02:19:03 PM

Oh, this makes me so sad.  I know Laurie appreciated all you did for him.  All of us have been in awe of your strength during his illness.  I am so sorry for your loss.

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Post by: Darthvadar on August 17, 2013, 03:06:01 PM

Thinking of, and praying for you....

Darth.....

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Post by: Henry P Snicklesnorter on August 17, 2013, 03:18:27 PM

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Post by: Jean on August 17, 2013, 05:21:33 PM

So sorry for your loss Brenda. Hope you can also rest now, knowing he is no longer in pain.

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Post by: komomai on August 17, 2013, 05:28:54 PM

Sorry for your lost. Always remember the good times with him. :grouphug;

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Post by: paris on August 17, 2013, 05:43:56 PM

I am so very sorry, Brenda.  I lost my husband a few months ago.  He had a rare form of cancer, but cause of death was Septic Shock. Some little infection found an opportune spot and just took over his body.  I know the pain, the emptiness you are feeling. People tell me it will get better, but I still cry everyday. It is the little things that make it so hard.  Take lots of time to grieve. It is ok to be sad.  PM me if I can help in any way.  I'll be keeping you in my prayers.

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Post by: glitter on August 17, 2013, 06:39:06 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. There are no words of relief, but know that I am thinking of you.  :grouphug; :grouphug;

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Post by: cdwbrooklyn on August 18, 2013, 09:31:47 AM

Brenda, please accept my condolences. You in my prayers.   :pray;

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Post by: galvo on August 18, 2013, 05:56:20 PM

Brenda, I'm so sorry for your loss! :bestwishes;

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Post by: Joe on August 18, 2013, 07:47:24 PM

Brenda, sorry for your loss. Will be keeping you and yours in our prayers.

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Post by: del on August 19, 2013, 06:38:00 PM

So sorry for your loss.  :grouphug;

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Post by: Rerun on August 19, 2013, 08:57:02 PM

Brenda, I'm so sorry for your loss.  Laurie fought the good fight.  Now he is at peace.

Take care of you.   :pray;

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Post by: monrein on August 20, 2013, 04:38:50 AM

 :grouphug;  so very sorry Brenda. 

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Post by: Sue on August 20, 2013, 06:25:49 AM

So sorry to hear of your loss, keeping you in my prayers

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Post by: thegrammalady on August 21, 2013, 10:09:21 AM

Sorry to come back to the board and find such sad news.

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Post by: waltswife on August 21, 2013, 05:07:12 PM

I wanted to add my deepest sympathies.  But I also need to thank you for all you have shared.  I feel like I know you.  And I felt like I knew your beloved.  I enjoyed the way you described your life together, during your caregiver days.  You were honest, you were direct, you were scared, you were funny.  You made it easier for me to admit what I did right and what I did wrong and what I could improve on in my life.  So, again, thank you.

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Post by: frankswife on August 22, 2013, 06:40:57 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, Brenda. You were just such a wonderful care partner to him. I will be praying for you.