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Dialysis Discussion => Dialysis: Spouses and Caregivers => Topic started by: Mizar on January 29, 2011, 07:55:23 PM

Title: My Husband is gone.
Post by: Mizar on January 29, 2011, 07:55:23 PM: My Dear Husband Died Today. It was the most Peaceful Passing, He just took, Soft, Silent, Breaths, until the End. I Prayed, that God, would let it end this way and He Answered, My Prayers. We had been Married, for over, Forty Years. He was My Husband, My Lover and Friend. I will Miss Him.
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Post by: breezysummerday on January 29, 2011, 08:28:21 PM: No words yet for you Miss Jo-Ann,
just know that I'm here for you
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Post by: tyefly on January 29, 2011, 09:37:39 PM: Beautifully Said.... Your are lucky to have had that wonderful person in your life.... May you memories be everlasting......
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Post by: okarol on January 29, 2011, 10:05:06 PM: :'( :'( :'(
Thanks for letting us know Jo Ann. Wow, 40 years, that's a lifetime together. I am glad his life ended peacefully and I hope you will be surrounded by love from family and friends.
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Post by: glitter on January 29, 2011, 10:13:05 PM: I am so sorry for your loss, I do hope you're :grouphug; :grouphug; surrounded by your family, and I hope you take a small comfort in knowing that you took wonderful care of him, you were his forever. I am glad it was gentle and peaceful, my heart breaks for the wrenching loss you must feel.
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Post by: monrein on January 29, 2011, 10:27:59 PM: :grouphug; Thinking of you and your family. :grouphug;
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Post by: thegrammalady on January 29, 2011, 10:48:17 PM: jo ann i feel for you. know that you have friends here who care. :grouphug; :grouphug;
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Post by: kristina on January 30, 2011, 02:53:04 AM: I am very sorry for your loss, Mizar.
I can imagine how hard it is after all these years,
and I am thinking of you. :grouphug;

Kind regards from Kristina.
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Post by: galvo on January 30, 2011, 04:00:27 AM: I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Sax-O-Trix on January 30, 2011, 04:18:34 AM: My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Please take care yourself.
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Post by: billybags on January 30, 2011, 04:33:27 AM: Mizar, I don't know what to say to ease your heart. I am so very sorry for your loss. Forty years is a life time with the same person. Think of the good memories that you both shared.I will be thinking of you and your family.
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Post by: Darthvadar on January 30, 2011, 04:46:45 AM: Jo-Ann...

I'm terribly sorry to hear this.... May your darling husband rest in peace...

May God bless and protect you and your family.....

Thinking of, and praying for you.....

Love...

Darth....

I’m Free

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free I’m following the path God has laid you see. I took His hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that peace at the close of day.

If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Oh yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I savored much Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and peace to thee God wanted me now; He set me free.
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Post by: looneytunes on January 30, 2011, 05:45:53 AM: JoAnn, I'm saddened by your loss but so glad that it ws a peaceful end to his journey. My heart goes out to you and you will be in my prayers. :grouphug;
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Post by: lola on January 30, 2011, 06:09:17 AM: Jo-Ann you are all in my prayers :grouphug; :grouphug;
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Post by: boswife on January 30, 2011, 06:12:43 AM: It's hard for me to even read your post, but God did answer and you can have peace with that. Bless you and may God continue to keep you in his arms and protect your heart and give you strength.
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Post by: aharris2 on January 30, 2011, 06:17:28 AM: oh JoAnn, I am so sorry. Thankfully God answered your prayers and your dear husband passed easily. But, it is never easy for those left behind. My deepest sympathy. I hope your good memories ease this time.
:grouphug;
Alene

JoAnn,

My heart and prayers go out to you.

Rolando
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Post by: silverhead on January 30, 2011, 08:17:25 AM: My deepest sympathy
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Post by: jbeany on January 30, 2011, 09:24:51 AM: So sorry - take care of yourself.
:grouphug;
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Post by: willowtreewren on January 30, 2011, 09:32:08 AM: Jo, I'm so sorry and have been thinking of you these past few days.

:grouphug;

Draw on the help of those who care for you.

:grouphug;
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Post by: carol1987 on January 30, 2011, 09:46:35 AM: I am so very sorry for your loss..... :'(

I am thankful that his passing was peaceful and I wish you and your loved ones comfort and peace ......
:cuddle; :cuddle; :cuddle;
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Post by: del on January 30, 2011, 10:05:49 AM: :grouphug; Thinking of you :grouphug;
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Post by: Enginman on January 30, 2011, 01:34:09 PM: My Sincire Sympathy
He will live for entrinty in "That House Not made With Hands' Amen
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Post by: billmoria on January 30, 2011, 02:17:43 PM: Beautifully said - I am so glad he went in peace. One day you will be able to remember more the great times and less the ending.
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Post by: Rerun on January 30, 2011, 04:26:05 PM: Jo Ann, I'm so sorry for your loss. Yes, you will miss him. May he be at peace and with God now.

:pray;
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Post by: Joe Paul on January 30, 2011, 05:58:50 PM: I am sorry for your loss
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Post by: RichardMEL on January 30, 2011, 07:11:37 PM: Really nothing much I can say except to add to everyone's expressions of sorrow and support for you. You've had such a long battle and he's resting peacefully now. I am glad the end was peaceful for you both.
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Post by: Gandalf on January 30, 2011, 07:44:03 PM: Mizar, my heart aches for you. I will be keeping you so very much in my thoughts and contemplations; praying you peace and comfort. May light perpetual shine ever on him.
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Post by: Bajanne on January 30, 2011, 11:15:02 PM: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. But I am glad for the report of his peaceful passing. Be assured of the love that surrounds you at this time :grouphug;
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Post by: Jean on January 31, 2011, 01:54:33 AM: So sorry to hear of your loss. Knowing that it is coming does not help to ease the pain at all does it. Greateful to God that his passing was peaceful. :cuddle;
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Post by: paul.karen on January 31, 2011, 04:39:17 AM: Sorry to read this news.

May god bless you both.
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Post by: vcarmody on January 31, 2011, 05:10:45 AM: I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Deanne on January 31, 2011, 07:39:56 AM: I'm sorry. :grouphug;
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Post by: Poppylicious on January 31, 2011, 09:00:30 AM: I'm so sorry, Jo Ann. How wonderful that you shared forty years together; you must have some lovely (and much treasured) memories. Thinking of you and your family.

*huggles*
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Post by: Desert Dancer on January 31, 2011, 09:00:50 AM: JoAnn, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you must feel and I have no words of my own to offer you. But here is something I read at my grandmother's funeral; I hope it may bring you even a smidge of comfort.

WHAT IS DYING?

I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength and I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to mingle with each other. Then some one at my side says: "There! She's gone."

Gone where? Gone from my sight - that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of destination. Her diminished size is in me, not in her; and just at the moment when some one at my side says,
"There! She's gone," there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "There she comes!"

And that is dying.

-Author Unknown
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Post by: looneytunes on February 01, 2011, 08:38:00 AM: Thinking of you JoAnn. :cuddle;
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Post by: Mizar on February 01, 2011, 03:19:15 PM: Thank You all, for Your Kind Words. I Read every one. They have meant so much to Me.

Jo-Ann
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Post by: our last breath on February 02, 2011, 12:26:31 PM: I am very sorry for you lost. Please take care of yourself. AND ALWAYS remember you are very specail to have stood by your husband. May the LORD walk with you.
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Post by: Kitty Cat on February 02, 2011, 04:26:59 PM: Mizar,

I just saw this and have tears in my eyes. I am praying for you through this. I wish you peace and love.
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Post by: thegrammalady on February 02, 2011, 04:36:51 PM: hope you're hanging in there, i think of you often. :cuddle;
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Post by: natnnnat on February 02, 2011, 04:42:50 PM: :'(
I like what DesertDancer said. It took me a long time, but one day maybe this year, I discovered that my Mum is with me again, she died in 2004.
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Post by: natnnnat on February 02, 2011, 04:44:31 PM: And I meant to say, sorry and sad to hear this Mizar, thinking of you. Wish we could take some of the sadness.
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Post by: karrye on February 23, 2011, 06:09:32 AM: :grouphug; 'weeps silently' My prayers and sorrows for you.
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Post by: Henry P Snicklesnorter on February 23, 2011, 06:46:08 AM: .
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Post by: carla13 on February 23, 2011, 07:28:15 AM: I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you. :cuddle;
xx
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Post by: Yvonne on February 24, 2011, 06:32:36 AM: I am so sorry Mizar to read about the passing of your dear husband. I have not been on the site in months so sorry for the delay. You were a great friend to me when I lost John. I wish there was a space on the site where widowers could come and talk about life that does go on. I know it is very early days for you, but even after 10 months I just wish I could have John back. Not one day goes by without thinking of him.
My prayers are with you Yvonne
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Post by: LostWife on February 24, 2011, 08:04:53 AM: I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
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Post by: okarol on February 24, 2011, 08:19:19 AM: Yvonne, Mizar and others,
Please know that we always welcome discussion and offer support even after your loved one has passed. Come back anytime, threads are probably most easily found in the caregiver section, but also may be posted in General Discussion. You are still part of the family. Thanks.

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