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Dialysis Discussion => Dialysis: Spouses and Caregivers => Topic started by: Dianejt on September 06, 2010, 07:58:34 AM

Title: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Dianejt on September 06, 2010, 07:58:34 AM
He is very weak now & sleeping all the time. Today we got dressed , in the wheelchair & out to the ramp to go & he refused to go, saying bring me home. I tried getting him to go at least 1 more time before he stops because I'm afraid that with 3 nights of TPN (3 liters) he will have problems breathing, he still refused. I'm so scared that it will be hard on him, the center said they would take him tomorrow if he decides to go. Please keep him in your prayers that his death will be easy as he has suffered so very much already.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: billybags on September 06, 2010, 08:04:10 AM
Diane, my heart goes out to you. You will both be in my prayers.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Darthvadar on September 06, 2010, 08:30:08 AM
I am so sorry to hear this, Diane...

I know that Frank is your entire heart and soul....

I'll be thinking of, and praying for you both...

May God bless and protect you both....

Love and hugs...

Darth....
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: glitter on September 06, 2010, 09:37:20 AM
I will be thinking of you both- I'm so sorry you have to go through this, I hope its gentle, and peaceful.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Poppylicious on September 06, 2010, 10:46:48 AM
Many, many *huggles*.  Thinking of you both.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: lola on September 06, 2010, 11:19:14 AM
I am so sorry, and am keeping you both in my prayers and sending you bunches of  :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: kellyt on September 06, 2010, 11:40:05 AM
I'm sorry you are having to go through this.  I'm sorry Frank is having to go through this.  Both of you will be in my thoughts.  Keep us informed.   :cuddle;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Meinuk on September 06, 2010, 12:09:55 PM
I am so sorry for what you are both going through right now.  You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you both find strength and peace with this.

 :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: monrein on September 06, 2010, 12:26:46 PM
Thinking of you both and your family too.   :grouphug; :cuddle; :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: okarol on September 06, 2010, 01:28:44 PM

I don't want him to suffer any more. I know you will take the very best care of him. Sending you love and best wishes.  :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: cariad on September 06, 2010, 03:53:15 PM
Oh, Diane. My heart breaks for you. You both are in my thoughts.  :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: jbeany on September 06, 2010, 06:30:42 PM
 :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: mikey07840 on September 06, 2010, 06:59:46 PM
 :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Marina on September 06, 2010, 07:43:30 PM
((((((((((((((((((Diane))))))))))))))))))))))))))  :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: boswife on September 06, 2010, 07:55:15 PM
I hurt for you Dianne.  My prayers are for comfort and a kind passing..  May God comfort you both and hold you in His arms..  with love, jill
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: glitter on September 06, 2010, 08:58:09 PM
you have been in my thoughts all day and will continue to be- my heart is breaking for you both- I wish you peace and dignity, I wish I could comfort you both, but I know words don't mean much right now. Peace to you both. :grouphug; :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: galvo on September 06, 2010, 09:56:47 PM
You are both in my thoughts.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: silverhead on September 06, 2010, 10:39:29 PM
Dianne, we send our love.......
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: RichardMEL on September 07, 2010, 01:25:38 AM
Such a difficult time. I really have no words, but many thoughts of support.

Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: MooseMom on September 07, 2010, 01:26:09 AM
All of this pointless suffering for two people who deserve so much better.  It makes me so very very angry that I could just spit.  I wish I had something more gracefully soothing to say, but I am angry at God and the world for making you two go through so much for no reason whatsoever.    I am sorry...I wish I had kinder words.  I wish I could say that I would pray for you, but I'm not speaking to God right now...
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: del on September 07, 2010, 04:48:17 AM
 :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: carol1987 on September 07, 2010, 07:16:32 AM
I am so sorry... praying for strength, peace and comfort for you  and your husband..... :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Mizar on September 07, 2010, 08:27:10 AM

 Dear Diane, Frank, Yourself and Your entire Family Unit, are in My Prayers and Thoughts.  What a difficult, Road, you are Walking Today.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: okarol on September 07, 2010, 11:58:05 AM
 :grouphug; Thinking of you...
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Jean on September 07, 2010, 01:37:00 PM
So sorry Diane. I hope everything is peaceful for you and will continue to pray for both of you. God Bless you both.
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: boswife on September 08, 2010, 01:59:15 PM
Praying for some comfort today...
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: ChickenLittle56 on September 11, 2010, 11:41:20 PM
Ihope that you and Frank find some comfort in the coming difficult days. :grouphug; :grouphug;
Title: Re: Frank refused to go to dialysis today
Post by: Sluff on September 12, 2010, 03:31:23 PM
Frank has passed away for those who may not know it.     http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?board=97.0


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