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Dialysis Discussion => Dialysis: General Discussion => Topic started by: billable on October 15, 2006, 05:32:44 PM

Title: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: billable on October 15, 2006, 05:32:44 PM

I see many of you posting that you have chosen not to have a transplant.  I am very curious why you would not have a transplant if it is an option for you.

I tried to donate for my wife to have a transplant but, first off, we don't match.  Then the transplant coordinator told me that if I donated to whoever they had for me to match, that Denise would be moved up and receive the next available cadaver donation that matched her.  I convinced them to do a cross swap.  In other words, I would donate to someone that had a donor to donate for Denise.  That way she would receive a kidney from a living donor.

We found a swap, went through all the tests and they found that I have multiple stones in both kidneys and turned me down as a donor.

My point is, I would do anything I could to get her a transplant because it seems like it is so much better than to be on dialysis.  She has been on 3 day a week hemo 20 years ago.  She got a transplant and kept it 20 years until it failed.  She did PD for 10 months and now we are using nxstage 6 days a week.  By far, the transplant was the best option for her.  What am I missing?

Title: Re: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: Sluff on October 15, 2006, 06:20:49 PM

It worked good for your wife and thats fantastic but I guess it's a matter of choice and circumstances.

Title: Re: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: billable on October 15, 2006, 07:30:45 PM

I understand.  And I am not trying to persuade you to do or not do anything.  I am certain you have your reasons for not wanting a transplant.  If it isn't too personal, I would like to understand why. Like I said, maybe there is something that I am missing. 

 I am pretty new to this site.  If this is a subject that has been discussed elsewhere, perhaps you could point me in the right direction.

Title: Re: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: goofynina on October 15, 2006, 07:56:42 PM

Billable,  You can find some discussion on this topic here: http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?topic=783.0
Hope it helps  :thumbup;

Title: Re: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: Zach on October 15, 2006, 09:01:04 PM

Quote from: billable on October 15, 2006, 07:30:45 PM

I understand.  And I am not trying to persuade you to do or not do anything.  I am certain you have your reasons for not wanting a transplant.  If it isn't too personal, I would like to understand why. Like I said, maybe there is something that I am missing. 

 I am pretty new to this site.  If this is a subject that has been discussed elsewhere, perhaps you could point me in the right direction.

There is more discussion here, too:

http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?topic=1075.0

And this thread as well:
http://ihatedialysis.com/forum/index.php?topic=1180.0

This is a very important topic for us to share our ideas and experiences.


 :beer1;

Title: Re: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: billable on October 16, 2006, 03:57:19 AM

Thanks.  I figured it was a subject that had come up before.

Title: Re: Transplant vs. no transplant
Post by: billable on October 16, 2006, 04:15:48 AM

Those links are great.  Thanks again,

Bill