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Title: here's what home hemo did for Marvin today...
Post by: petey on April 21, 2009, 06:48:08 PM
Before Marvin got sick years ago, he was an avid golfer -- once, twice a week -- every time he got the chance, he was on the golf course.  Then, we found out he had ESRD and started dialysis four days later.  Unfortunately, he soon figured out that he couldn't hold out for golfing anymore.  The last time he golfed was about 13 years ago -- just a year after he started dialysis.  He made it to the third hole before he called me to come and get him; he physically just couldn't do it.  He was so disappointed.  He decided then he'd give up the sport.

Well, all the years went by, and Marvin's had so many surgeries since then (four grafts in the arms, two fistulas in the arms, 14 perm caths, a transplanted kidney in, a transplanted kidney out, an abdominal pacemaker, etc.).  Along with all the surgeries and all the "mending," dialysis has taken its toll on Marvin's energy and stamina.  But, then we started home hemo 20 months ago, and his energy has picked up considerably.

Today, I called home during my break between classes, and Marvin wasn't home.  When I reached him on his cell, he said he was on the way to the golf course with a buddy of his.  "I woke up this morning and decided I wanted to see if I could golf again," Marvin told me.  "I called Randy, and he said, 'Let's go.'"

Marvin shot nine holes of golf today!   Randy only beat him by two strokes (Randy's a few years younger and an extremely healthy man).  Marvin was tickled beyond words with himself.  Then tonight, Marvin's youth baseball team had a game, and Marvin went and coached for two hours!  It's been a very good day for Marvin physically, and we both think it's because of the home hemo.  It's so wonderful to see him enjoying the things he loved pre-dialysis!
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Post by: David13 on April 21, 2009, 06:55:36 PM
That is truly inspirational!   :2thumbsup;
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Post by: silverhead on April 21, 2009, 07:41:37 PM
Fantastic!
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Post by: rocker on April 21, 2009, 07:48:17 PM
Wow!  :yahoo;

Hubby has been debating whether to start home hemo once his fistula is fully operational.  He is still working and doesn't really want to put in the training time. I will definitely be passing this story along.  I tell him that many people report feeling much better on home hemo, but he remains unconvinced.
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Post by: Wallyz on April 21, 2009, 08:24:22 PM
Yay for Marvin! 

Rocker- tell your hubby that the mortality rate of Home Hemo is half that of in center.
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Post by: Sluff on April 21, 2009, 08:56:49 PM
 :yahoo;  Holy Cow! Congratulations Marvin.  :beer1;
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Post by: thegrammalady on April 21, 2009, 09:58:07 PM
 :yahoo; :2thumbsup; :yahoo; :2thumbsup; :yahoo; :2thumbsup;
i just love good news.
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Post by: breezysummerday on April 21, 2009, 10:07:43 PM
                 

                                  :boxing;         :boxing;         :boxing;                   
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Post by: circleNthedrain on April 21, 2009, 10:37:15 PM
This is such a GREAT story.  You just gotta keep trying!
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Post by: rose1999 on April 21, 2009, 11:21:51 PM
 :yahoo; So pleased to read this, long may it continue  xxx
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Post by: Wattle on April 22, 2009, 12:51:11 AM
 :clap; :clap; :clap;

Time for a new set of clubs!!    :yahoo;
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Post by: willowtreewren on April 22, 2009, 06:33:15 AM
This is wonderful, Petey.

I'm a true believer in home hemo since my husband feels so great, too.

Everyone keeps saying that he looks so well, and of course, he does!

May Marvin have many wonderful years of golf! :cheer:

Aleta
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Post by: willieandwinnie on April 22, 2009, 06:43:53 AM
 :yahoo; You made my day petey. Hope Marvin has many more golf adventures.  :cuddle;
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Post by: okarol on April 22, 2009, 07:41:15 AM

I love to hear it petey! Great news to start the day!   :2thumbsup;
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Post by: jbeany on April 22, 2009, 08:25:13 AM
Go Marvin!
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Post by: del on April 22, 2009, 09:22:13 AM
Way to go Marvin!!!  Yes Petey it is due to home hemo and being able to do so much more dialysis!!!  In the 2 1/2 years hubby has been on nocturnal home hemo he feels better than he ever has in his life!!!   :yahoo; :2thumbsup;
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Post by: paul.karen on April 22, 2009, 09:30:11 AM
 :clap;
This is a happy story for sure.

 :thumbup;
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Post by: harley08 on April 22, 2009, 12:53:16 PM
That is such wonderful news..... Go Marvin  :clap; :yahoo; :clap;
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Post by: cherpep on April 23, 2009, 01:33:57 PM
That is so inspirational!!!  I love doing home hemo, but work takes all the energy out of me.  I have a very difficult time finding the energy for just grocery shopping.  Golf?!  Wow.  That is just incredible. 
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Post by: kimcanada on April 23, 2009, 04:11:02 PM
What a great story, and believe me I NEEDED THAT ... way to go Marvin~!!
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Post by: Jill D. on April 23, 2009, 06:59:06 PM
This is so great to hear!
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Post by: glitter on April 23, 2009, 09:53:59 PM
wow- that just made my list of daily positives- you GO!!   :flower; :cheer:
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Post by: Jean on April 23, 2009, 11:31:04 PM
Oh, now, that is awesome!!!!! Yay Marvin!!!!
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Post by: Floridasue on April 24, 2009, 06:47:14 AM
That is so great!!!  And how I needed to hear nsuch a niice story this morning.  I have been on NxStage for a couple months now and hoping I will have a great story to tell down the road.  Thanks for the news.
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Post by: kitkatz on April 26, 2009, 08:46:23 AM
For Marvin's Golf Game:


The Golf Pro Prayer

The Pro is my Shepherd, I shall not Slice.
He maketh me to Drive Straight Down Green Fairways;
He leadeth me Safely across Still Water-Hazards;
He restoreth my Approach Shots.
He Leadeth me in the Paths of Accuracy for my Game's Sake.
Yea, though I chip through the Roughs in the shadows of Sand Traps,
I will fear no Bogies. For his Advice is with me;
His Putter and Irons, they comfort me.
He prepareth my Strategy for me in the presence of mine Opponents;
He anointeth my head with Confidence:
The Cup will not be runneth over!
Surely Birdies and Eagles shall follow me all the Rounds of my Life,
And I will score in the Low Eighties


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Post by: petey on April 26, 2009, 11:14:45 AM
Kit --
Loved the poem!  Thank you so much for posting it.  Marvin said he prayed something along those lines last week when he went out on the course.  Your poem made his day!
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Post by: cev on May 06, 2009, 04:02:43 PM
to poems and golf     :beer1;