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Title: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: fishin4fun on January 04, 2009, 03:54:33 PM
 Hello all, This forum is just what ive been looking for, Im in my mid 30's and single and have been type I diabetic for 27 yrs now, I was diagnosed Aug1st with stage 5 renal failure and have been on hemodialysis since and it has been a true shock to me, my dialysis center is made up of people in there 60's thru 90's and me being in my mid 30's has been a shock to me. I have 3 exact matches and recently they have given my father the ok to be my donar, he still needs to get one last ekg and ultrasound butthe docs are pulling for late january or early febuary for my surgery. I know many of you have the time and experience of the process and to be honest with you im scared to death and have an endless amount of questions about the whole thing. but in advance thanks for the info and thanks for the support.    Scott
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Rerun on January 04, 2009, 04:05:55 PM
Scott, welcome to IHD.  I'm so glad you found us.  No matter your age, dialysis is a shock.  But, seeing all the old people is hard.  I started when I was 24 and from the people I saw on dialysis I just knew it must lead to brain damage.  But, it sounds like you will get a transplant and be on your way.  Lots to learn about dialysis and transplants, so stick with us and you will learn lots.

                                                                              :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: paris on January 04, 2009, 05:08:42 PM
 :welcomesign;  Scott!  So glad you found us. There are many here in their 30's and some have had transplants.  They will be glad to share their experiences.  Ask any questions you have.  The members are very helpful and we give each other so much support.  It is a great place to vent when you are just fed up with everything.  I am very excited about your upcoming transplant.  We admire living donors and think your Dad is a hero.  Post often.  We are always here  :2thumbsup;




paris, Moderator
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: peleroja on January 04, 2009, 05:11:07 PM
Welcome, Scott.  This is a wonderful place for information and friends who really know what you're going through.  Post often and let us know how you're doing.
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: fishin4fun on January 04, 2009, 06:05:28 PM
yeah it was a shock for sure, and I cant imagine someone not being shocked, Its just at my center everyone seems so brittle and old and there health just seems very bad. Myself I have been very active and a outdoorsman but now im just not the active person I once was. I thought once I got my chest cath out and they started using my fistula I would be more active spending time on my boat or being outdoors, but that never happened. I know I am very fortunate to possibly only spend 5 to 6 mos on dialysis before a transplant, but man its been tough mentaly and physically. I just want to get the transplant over with and get on with my life by finding a wife and millions of $$$ LOL the diagnosis has really put my priorities in order and made me see things totally different than before.
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: pelagia on January 04, 2009, 06:09:51 PM
 :welcomesign; to IHD.  My husband had a transplant in May.  The kidney was donated by our brother-in-law (our hero) and it has worked out really well so far.  Hopefully all will go well for you and you will get back to women and $$$ soon.  :2thumbsup;
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: paris on January 04, 2009, 06:14:03 PM
Hi Scott---just looked at your profile wanted to add that my family is all in Columbus.  I am in NC now, but to back to Ohio when I need a White Castle or Donato's fix!   :rofl;
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Wenchie58 on January 04, 2009, 06:16:06 PM
Ummmmm I'm older and have had my transplant...but if you get the $$$$$$ we can talk about the wife thing!   LOL  The transplant surgery is surgery, so it takes healing time, but the outdoors isn't going anywhere.  Take your time, heal, it will be there waiting for you!
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Razman on January 04, 2009, 06:26:34 PM
You've found the best web site to share questions and concerns with others that will understand.  Please stay in touch and let us know how things work out.
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: cookie2008 on January 04, 2009, 06:31:08 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: kellyt on January 04, 2009, 06:34:36 PM
 Welcome Scott and Congratulations on your up-coming transplant.  I transplanted (pre-dialysis) on Nov. 5th and I'm doing great!  Feel free to PM or email me if you have any questions!   Your Dad is a hero!
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Joe Paul on January 04, 2009, 10:53:42 PM
Welcome Scott , good to have you aboard.
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: willieandwinnie on January 05, 2009, 05:03:46 AM
:welcomesign; Scott. You did the the best site for support and information. We hope to hear more from you and your father is our hero. Please let us know how things go and ask any questions you have, we will answer.  :cuddle;
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: monrein on January 05, 2009, 05:32:09 AM
 :welcomesign;  Scott.  This is hard at any age and none of us choose it.  I started at 26 but had a great transplant (cadaveric) that lasted over 23 years.  Hoping for another (living donor) coming up soon.  This is the best place for both information and support from others who really know what you're facing.  Post often and ask any questions you may have.
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: boxman55 on January 05, 2009, 05:53:22 AM
Welcome to IHD,Scott. Please take some time to read our transplant forum there is a ton of info that will help you understand the process. I look forward to your posts


Boxman,Moderator
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Hilrose on January 05, 2009, 08:49:11 AM
Hi  :welcomesign; to our family,  :grouphug;
Please keep us updated with your coming transplant.

H
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Romona on January 05, 2009, 01:08:36 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: Bajanne on January 06, 2009, 11:23:15 PM
Welcome to our community, Scott!  We are so glad that you found us and decided to join.  You will find that this site is amazing when it comes to information, support and caring.  We are more than just a website - we are family  :grouphug;  Please take advantage of all this site has to offer.  Our caring thoughts and prayers are with you concerning your transplant.   Keep reading and keep posting.  We need to know how you are doing.
Looking forward to hearing much from you. :flower;




Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: Im fairly new to this, started dialysiis in Aug.
Post by: jessup on January 07, 2009, 03:20:18 PM
G'day and  :welcomesign;