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Title: Gotta newbie here
Post by: desperadosgirl on December 04, 2008, 01:23:16 PM
My fiance' is now on peritoneal, looking forward to start using the machine. We go tomorrow for his kt/v and pet. He was a transplant receipient 20 years ago. Failed in Aug. started Hemo. They never seemed to figure out his dry weight so the weekends were rough. Just about every Monday morning we were in emergency room with him having severe cramps, blood pressure sky high, not breathing very well, mind you, he has congestive heart failure and the excess water was not helping that problem. Aug 20th I almost lost him. Back in ER this time breathing was worse, they had to ventilate him, he was uncontrollable. Blood work came back, they discovered he had had a heart attack 7-10 days prior. 3 blockages in the "widow" maker vein. Those are fixed now no luck on the backside of his heart, it is completely blocked. Anyway, they finally have his dry weight figured out and after 2 weeks in the hospital, we are keeping everything in control with the peritoneal. It has definately brought the stress level down on both of our parts. I have been off of work since this all has happened, I go back Monday though and I am dreading it cause I won't be here to help him out if needed
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: G-Ma on December 04, 2008, 01:33:53 PM
 :welcomesign;  So glad you found this site.
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: Joe Paul on December 04, 2008, 02:03:22 PM
Welcome desperadosgirl , good to have you aboard.
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: Bajanne on December 04, 2008, 02:15:40 PM
Welcome to our community!   You are part of a wonderful sub-community here - those who are here because of a loved one.  I particularly appreciate all of you who come here because of your concern and love.  There is much here - information and lots of support.  There is always someone who understands exactly what you are going through.  So keep reading, and keep posting!  You are part of our family now!  :grouphug;


Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: monrein on December 04, 2008, 02:50:18 PM
 :welcomesign;  I hope you'll post often with questions or experiences to share with us.  Your fiance is lucky to have your support and caring in his life.
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: jessup on December 04, 2008, 02:51:42 PM
G'day and  :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: boxman55 on December 04, 2008, 03:13:17 PM
Welcome to IHD. being supportive and a caregiver has to be tough on you. We have alot of caregivers on the site that you can draw information from. I look forward to your posts

Boxman,Moderator
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: cookie2008 on December 04, 2008, 04:09:05 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: kellyt on December 04, 2008, 04:30:36 PM
:waving;   Did your fiance receive a living or cadaver donor?
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: desperadosgirl on December 04, 2008, 07:44:58 PM
Hey guys.. Thanks for the warm welcome :clap; Greatly appreciated
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: desperadosgirl on December 04, 2008, 07:51:29 PM
:waving;   Did your fiance receive a living or cadaver donor?
He recieved a cadaver donor. He was very lucky to have it last for so long.
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: willieandwinnie on December 05, 2008, 09:58:58 AM
 :welcomesign; desperadosgirl. You have found the perfect site for information and support. Post often and have your fiance join us also. We are a great group.  :cuddle;
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: pelagia on December 07, 2008, 04:53:46 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: Ang on December 07, 2008, 04:58:40 PM
 :welcomesign;
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: Normie on December 11, 2008, 05:03:54 PM
 :welcomesign;

Hope things go better for you now.
 
You have found a great site for help.

Welcome to the family.   :grouphug;

Normie
Title: Re: Gotta newbie here
Post by: Romona on December 11, 2008, 06:42:32 PM
 :welcomesign;