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Title: My bumpy road
Post by: T_wants2_pee_again on October 22, 2008, 04:00:52 PM
Hi all. I am very excited to find this site.  I did not know anything like this was around.  I think it will help a lot to talk to all of you.

Well, my story is kind of long but I will do my best to keep it short and (bitter)sweat.  In March of 2007 I became ill.  I was only 21 years old, going to school full time and working two part time jobs plus keeping up a socail life.  I just figured I got the flu from one of the kids at my job.  It had been 5 days and I was only getting worse, becoming jaundice and extreme stomach pain.  My mom finally talked me into going to the ER.  I went to Anderson ER ( a local hospital)  and before I really knew what was going on I heard the doctor saying someone get Barnes Hospital on the phone and see if they will admit her.  Even though Barnes is only about 45 min away(in St Louis) I thought wow that's a big name hospital what is going on?  Come to find out after about a million doctors and test I had Hemolytic Uremic Syndrome(HUS).  Because of this blood disorder my kidneys shut down.  The doctors are still not sure what caused it but are continually researching to find out why.  I was in the hospital for 6 weeks receiving blood and platelets and dialysis.  I recently found out that because of this blood disorder and a deficiency in a gene I can not receive a transplant.  Well, being 23 that is a total bummer to be looking at dialysis for the rest of my life.  Most days I can deal with it and carry on like normal but everyone has their bad days, so when I found this site where I can talk to people who understand I was TOTALLY excited.

That's my "kidney issue" story.  As, for just about me.  I am recently engaged and thrilled.  Still going to school to be a special education teacher and trying to work at Dairy Queen.  I love being outdoors and playing sports, but I HATE the restriction dialysis puts on life.  Talk to you all soon
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: monrein on October 22, 2008, 04:07:25 PM
Hi T.   :welcomesign; to IHD and thanks for your great Intro.  I'm so sorry that you're facing all this crap at your age (not that it's good at any age but you know what I mean).  I was 26 when I first started D.
You sound as though you have a great attitude and it's exciting that you're engaged.  Congratulations. 
I'm glad that you found us too and I hope you'll post often.
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: willieandwinnie on October 22, 2008, 04:40:29 PM
 :welcomesign; T_wants2_pee_again (love the name). So happy you found us and we can't wait to hear more from you.  :cuddle;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: southyard on October 22, 2008, 04:58:22 PM
Hi all. I am very excited to find this site.  I did not know anything like this was around.  I think it will help a lot to talk to all of you.

Well, my story is kind of long but I will do my best to keep it short and (bitter)sweat.  In March of 2007 I became ill.  I was only 21 years old, going to school full time and working two part time jobs plus keeping up a socail life.  I just figured I got the flu from one of the kids at my job.  It had been 5 days and I was only getting worse, becoming jaundice and extreme stomach pain.  My mom finally talked me into going to the ER.  I went to Anderson ER ( a local hospital)  and before I really knew what was going on I heard the doctor saying someone get Barnes Hospital on the phone and see if they will admit her.  Even though Barnes is only about 45 min away(in St Louis) I thought wow that's a big name hospital what is going on?  Come to find out after about a million doctors and test I had Hemolytic Uremic Syndrome(HUS).  Because of this blood disorder my kidneys shut down.  The doctors are still not sure what caused it but are continually researching to find out why.  I was in the hospital for 6 weeks receiving blood and platelets and dialysis.  I recently found out that because of this blood disorder and a deficiency in a gene I can not receive a transplant.  Well, being 23 that is a total bummer to be looking at dialysis for the rest of my life.  Most days I can deal with it and carry on like normal but everyone has their bad days, so when I found this site where I can talk to people who understand I was TOTALLY excited.

That's my "kidney issue" story.  As, for just about me.  I am recently engaged and thrilled.  Still going to school to be a special education teacher and trying to work at Dairy Queen.  I love being outdoors and playing sports, but I HATE the restriction dialysis puts on life.  Talk to you all soon
Hi T. Welcome to the club and the site. I have been diagnosed with ESRD. and ill end my dialysis in January. The restriction along with other maladies of old age and personal beliefs are my reasoning  At your age I would probably make a different decision

I wish you the best

Southyard
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: RichardMEL on October 22, 2008, 05:12:07 PM
Hi T.. *hugs* what a horrible surprise to have that just fall on you in the absolute prime of your life with everything ahead of you.. specially with the blood issue aparently disallowing a transplant... I think though you should hold out some hope - the way research is going and with the recent increase in stuff like ABD incompatable transplants, maybe they will find a way to work around your issue too... or perhaps the stem cell growing "own" kidneys will be for you down the track. We can but only hope.

Still, it's great you're trying to focus on the positive things in your life like work, school and your engagement (congratulations!!) - having a loving and supportive family & partner around you is a really big help and will be so important for those times when it all seems like too much to bear.

Again.. welcome to IHD!!  :cuddle;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: twirl on October 22, 2008, 05:14:11 PM
hello!  I wants to pee again too
so glad to know you
and please feel free to post about anything
are you back in school
do you know about noctural dialysis
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: paris on October 22, 2008, 05:38:30 PM
 :welcomesign;   "T"  So glad you found this site.  It is a great place to rant, vent, cry and then laugh with others who truly know what you are going through.  I hate that this all happened in your 20's.  Some things just don't seem fair.    I lived in St.Louis for many years and know Barnes Hospital.  It is one of the best.    Congratulations on your engagement!  How exciting.  :clap;    Looking forward to reading more posts from you.    :grouphug;





paris, Moderator
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Rerun on October 22, 2008, 05:43:47 PM
Hi "T" and welcome to IHD.  I love your name.  I'm so sorry that you have no hope for a transplant.  My advice is to wait a few years and check into it again.  Things change really fast on the transplant discoveries.  I was only 24 when I was "surprised" as you were with dialysis.  I didn't have any other complications, just kidney failure so I got a transplant right away.  It lasted 17 years and I've been back on dialysis for 3 years and don't really expect another transplant. 

I'm looking forward to your posts.

Rerun~
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: G-Ma on October 22, 2008, 05:44:10 PM
 :welcomesign;

Congratulations  :flower; on your engagement.

I am so glad you found this site and I was going to say what RM did say...hopefully research will have an aahaa moment and find an answer for you..I believe it is out there.
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Ang on October 22, 2008, 07:25:56 PM
 :welcomesign;   T



congrats  on  the  engagement


bummer  on  the  no  transplant
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Joe Paul on October 22, 2008, 11:33:32 PM
Welcome "T", good to have you aboard.
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: idahospud on October 23, 2008, 12:47:57 AM
:welcomesign; :welcomesign; glad you found us .  carol
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: annabanana on October 23, 2008, 11:56:58 AM
 :welcomesign; sweet T.
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: paul.karen on October 23, 2008, 12:13:25 PM
 :waving;   :welcomesign;

Wow what a heartbreaking read that was :-(


But congrats on your engagement  :2thumbsup; :clap;.

P&K
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: TynyWonder on October 23, 2008, 12:18:53 PM
 :welcomesign; to IHD *T*  You sound like a really neat person that I am sure everyone is going to enjoy getting to know better!  Congrats on your engagement!!!!   :clap;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Brightsky69 on October 23, 2008, 01:01:53 PM
 :waving;  Welcome T,

Wow....no sign of a transplant. Give it a few years and maybe they will figure out a way to make a transplant work for you.

I was 21 when my kidneys failed. My transplant lasted for a little over 17 years. Now I am back on dialysis. We are here for you!   :cuddle;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Zach on October 23, 2008, 01:07:54 PM
Good to have you here!
 :beer1;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: boxman55 on October 23, 2008, 03:43:10 PM
Hi T welcome to IHD we look forward to your posts

Boxman, Moderator
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Jess21 on October 23, 2008, 04:28:14 PM
 :welcomesign; :welcomesign; :welcomesign; :welcomesign;
Hi!  I was just 21 when I found out I had ESRD.  Now, I'm going to be 22 tomorrow.  This is a great site!!
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: thegrammalady on October 23, 2008, 04:31:41 PM
:welcomesign;  this is a fantastic place to land. read, post and make friends. find answers to questions, rant, rave and let it all out. we all understand.
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: TynyWonder on October 23, 2008, 04:48:17 PM
:welcomesign; :welcomesign; :welcomesign; :welcomesign;
Hi!  I was just 21 when I found out I had ESRD.  Now, I'm going to be 22 tomorrow.  This is a great site!!

 :birthday; :birthday; :birthday; :birthday; Jess!!!!!!   We have birthdays in the same month!   My birthday is the 29th but I will be 39!     ::)  Oh, to be 22 again!!!    :bandance;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: jwaynebo on October 23, 2008, 05:17:19 PM
 :welcomesign;
I hope someday you will be able to get a transplant, but for now welcome aboard. :grouphug;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: jwaynebo on October 23, 2008, 05:18:50 PM
One more thing, Congratulations on your engagement.  :bestwishes;
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: devon on October 24, 2008, 06:20:36 AM
Welcome!

-Devon
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: Bajanne on October 24, 2008, 08:33:54 PM
Welcome to our community!  As you have seen, this is just the place for anyone facing what you are facing.  here you have found a genuine family  :grouphug; -  lots of caring and sharing people, loads of information, much support, and even barrels of fun (check the Off-topic section!).  Above all, as some of the others have said, a place where you can rant, and rage, and vent, and rave whenever you need to, knowing that we really UNDERSTAND!  So keep reading and keep posting.
Looking forward to hearing from you.. :flower;



Bajanne, Moderator
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: mcjane on October 25, 2008, 12:53:51 PM
There is always hope & new discoveries come along all the time.

 :welcomesign;


 :birthday;      jess & tyny
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: pelagia on October 25, 2008, 03:35:22 PM
 :welcomesign; to IHD T
Title: Re: My bumpy road
Post by: jessup on October 25, 2008, 09:35:03 PM
 :welcomesign;
 
and  :bandance; :bandance; :bandance; :bandance; :bandance;
on your engagement